Three Invisible Limits
I want to do something different this week.
Instead of asking you to read, I want to invite you to listen.
I was recently a guest on the DisruptHER podcast, and this conversation stayed with me long after we stopped recording. Not because it was polished—but because it was real.
We went to a place where many high performers quietly live but rarely name.
I call it the midlife rift.
It’s that moment when:
You’ve checked all the boxes
Built the career
Held it together for everyone else
And yet… something feels off
Not wrong.
Not broken.
Just disconnected.
In this conversation, we unpack:
Why so many successful people feel depleted despite their success
How identity loss sneaks in when you’ve spent decades becoming everything for everyone
The three invisible limits that keep high performers from entering their next chapter
Why leadership can be profoundly lonely—and why losses hit twice as hard as wins
How to separate your worth from your performance (this one matters deeply)
I also share the non-negotiable habits that reshaped my life—even after health crisis—and how I now support leaders to protect their energy, rebuild belief, and reclaim their voice.
It isn’t about doing more.
It’s about coming home to yourself while still wanting more.
If you’ve felt a quiet tug lately…
If success looks good on the outside but feels heavy on the inside…
If you’re standing at a threshold and can’t quite name what’s next…
This conversation is for you.
And if something lands—if a sentence stops you in your tracks or opens a door—send me a message by replying to this email. I’d love to know what resonated.
You don’t have to burn yourself into the ground to build something meaningful.
You are the biggest influencer in your life, and when you recognize your influence over you, it's a game changer!
